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I've found that taking a bath is one of the best ways to relieve stress and relax. It's just the thing Chloe Pink needed to do after shopping for boots! It's important that us, girls know what stresses us out and what we can do to make ourselves feel better. What are some things that stress you out? What do you do to make yourself feel better. Pete and Chloe want to know.
As you may know, I recently decided to snag me some of those fancy schmancy over-the-knee-boots. (Coming to that decision was a monumental task in itself.)




After attending a biz women's networking event last night, I woke up this morning with this idea in my head and had to get it down on paper. None of the women I met yesterday do any of the things that the bouffanted lady in the cartoon does. And yet, in some strange way, it seems like they all did. The more I attend these events, the more I realize how multi-faceted and multi-"tasketed" us women are. Whatever happened to the idea of "less is more" and "K.I.S.S." (keep it simple stupid)? We don't just bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan anymore. No, We have 20 other things to do as well. So, I'm asking, just throwing it out there...is this good or bad? Is there a "fall-out" for women, their families, their friends and biz assocaties who "do it all?" Or is that just the way we're meant to be? And do all those "extra" things we do make a ripple in our own communities that turn into a tidal wave of change of positive energy throughout the world? Or, are we all just a little bit nuts? And no further philosophical thinking on this subject is needed?
Friendship has always been important to me. Having a few people to share my dreams and struggles with over a cup of joe magically makes life better. Which brings me to Facebook, the social network of friends galore. As much as I like FB, I do think the whole "friend" thing is a bit silly. I mean, c'mon. 96 Friends? Really? 96? And that number is actually eency compared to some of my other FB friends with more than 1,000 friends. Also, many of my 96 FB "friends," I've never even met face-to-face. They're biz associates of associates of associates of associates. Or, they're people I went to high school with and don't remember from those prehistoric, pre-wired days. On the other hand, Facebook does give me opportunities to get to know people I already know just a little bit better. Sometimes that's good and sometimes that's bad. If you know what I'm sayin'. And I'm sure that works both ways. Like, I wonder what my FB friends think of me and my Chloe Pink posts, etc. on my Facebook page? Who knows. Oh well. Gotta run. I'm meeting a friend--A real friend. For dinner. In person.
This week, I overheard Dee Dee Myers, the former (and first woman as well as 2nd youngest) White House Press Secretary on a news show. She was in a panel discussion about the congressional hearings of Judge Sonia Sotomayor, nominee for the U.S. Supreme Court. According to Myers, almost every girl and woman has "felt left out" at a meeting, even female justices in the highest court of our land. This made me think, "Wow, if a woman makes it all the way to Supreme Court Justice and is still ignored, it just goes to show! We're never too young, girls, to work on being noticed, acknowledged and heard. Of course, this means having something to offer in a meaningful way...not to bore the audience...know what you're talking about...be on subject...and cut to the chase. Chloe Pink © Sharna Fulton 2009. All rights reserved.
1. To be curious. Why? Because if you accept your world as it is and never question or discover what's new, you limit your self growth.
The Chloe Pink Studio interior design project has begun. Last weekend, I came across an old french desk and chair at Alley's Attic. And hired someone to "shabby chic" it. That was easy. Now, the real work begins: finding the right shade of pink to paint CP's studio walls. With so many pinks from corals to candies to hot and french pinks, it's not as easy as you think. I want a room that makes a design statement, but it needs to be a conducive work space as well. I want "pink" to motivate, not distract me from bringing Pete & Chloe to life! Underlying this whole decision is, well, my problem in making decisions. I think it's partly a female characteristic to aim for perfectionism and overthink things. Often, that makes for a good outcome. But other times, it's kept me from moving forward in life. Sometimes the details become all too important and I can lose focus of the big picture. Does that ever happen to you. Have you ever waited too long to make a decision when you could've been making progress towards a goal? How many trips to the paint store would you make to get just the right pink? I've made 3 so far.